Hey Norm,
Sorry for the slow reply. The rear brake light switch is located on the left side of the bike, behind the left side of the engine, on the brake line. It's a pressure switch so changing it will involve swapping it then bleeding the rear brake. Pretty straightforward.
I don't know a part interchange with another bike, though I'm sure it's common to others. Have you tried Marty and Jamie? They probably have it. If not, you might try the Harley brake light switch. I just did a casual search of ebay for Harley rear brake switch and the results look to be the same or similar.